Jhoy Imperial and the Web

the hardest thing to do in one’s simple life is to say NO especially when you are not used to say that word and to do such action. people tend to agree to other’s opinion or request because they are afraid for what the possible outcome might be. saying NO is not a cursed word. it’s your freedom to refuse things that you think you can’t do not because you don’t have the skill to do it, but maybe it’s really out of your hand in the moment or is not within your lists of righteous principle. don’t get trapped in utang-na-loob attitude of others or he/she is higher than me. it’s they’re devilish way of holding as they’re slave. if you think it is beyond the border, then say NO. just don’t forget to do it nicely and polite.  people oftentimes thinks it is just okay because you don’t speak your mind but in reality, you are deeply hurt and that wound can’t be healed even by the greatest surgeon in the planet. if you can’t refuse a request and you failed (im not being pessimistic, im optimistic in reality), chances are they are not the only one to blame you but also yourself even if you say it’s okay but deep inside of you  are hurt a lot, Big time! it’s not bad to think of yourself sometimes. saying no to others is just a very good sign of your maturity and how strong you are.

~ by smiley-sheinnize on January 27, 2008.